(But I liked cruising and bathhouses in my younger days.) But is the drug and party scene very prevalent, and even sad, amongst the affluent and not so affluent gay men who relocate there? Are most in competition for the rare young guy? I am not interested in that and never have been. I've never visited, but have researched it, and it seems it's somewhat easy to fall into the drug and party scene. Maybe it's mostly the visitors, not so much the residents? Plus, does it seem sex could be nearly always on the minds of all gay men there, but especially the eldergays - or at least the sexually compulsive trying to re-live their youth? Seems it could be too distracting for some or most.